The Law Office of John F. Durkin, Jr.

Extremely disappointing experience with Attorney John Durkin and his paralegal, Kelsey McCabe. The paralegal was dismissive and unhelpful, ignoring multiple requests for required financial documents. I received only a signed affidavit — without any supporting documentation — making it impossible to prepare properly for mediation. Despite my concerns, the mediator allowed the session to go forward without enforcing New Hampshire Rule 2.16, which requires financial disclosures at least 10 days in advance. He also seemed unfamiliar with key financial issues like the 401(k), which had been flagged multiple times before the session. As someone representing myself, I made every effort to comply with the law and communicate in good faith. Instead of being treated fairly, I felt shut out of a process that was supposed to help. This office’s failure to enforce basic standards enabled my ex’s delay tactics and post-separation financial abuse. This was not a neutral, balanced, or professional mediation. I spent time and money trying to resolve this legally — and left with nothing. I would not recommend this mediator to anyone, especially those in high-conflict or abusive divorce cases.

Attorney Durkin is my "go-to" mediator in domestic relation matters. He has a unique ability to present information in a manner that everyone can understand. With his blunt (but kind) approach, litigants are able to see the strengths and weaknesses of their positions, which helps greatly with reaching an agreement. Attorney Durkin is always prepared and willing to go above and beyond to assist parties in reaching a resolution to move forward with their lives.

My office has utilized Attorney Durkin's mediation services multiple times in both simple and complex divorce and parenting cases. Attorney Durkin is always prepared, respectful, and efficient. John has a very unique ability to get through to people and make them concentrate on making important business decisions in their lives rather than emotional ones, but also being able to make them feel as though they have been heard. All around, I truly believe that Attorney Durkin is one of the best mediators in all of New Hampshire and cannot recommend him enough.

I found Attorney Durkin by chance. I went along to support my daughter in her quest to seek Counsel for an unfortunate Divorce. Unbeknownst to me, I would be in the same situation in a few short months. I office was unassuming not like the usual highfaluting offices with crystal chandeliers and law libraries. I did not see any lawyers wearing fine Italian suits and shoes. What I did see, was a friendly Administrative Assistant busy at work looking unusually happy where she was. I met Attorney DURKIN for the second time. He did not have a flashy desk , but we sat in a conference room. He listened to my dilemma ask questions and advised me on several scenarios and outcomes. His calming demeanor and friendly smile again made me feel confident that I had found the right office and legal professional to assist me across this legal maze, I knew little about. He was genuinely concerned with his clients best interests and least costly remedy not with how big his wallet will get . Attorney DURKIN is a diamond. in the rough. - polished, experienced and unpretentious that would pack a wallop of a legal punch to the opposing parties. He does it with skill, integrity and talent. I highly recommend Attorney DURKIN for your family law issues and needs. Nothing like having a great legal warrior at your side , Kathy, his able Assistant, appeared to me in our conversations, a valued asset of the firm. She also, provided great assistance to me. Very professional and dedicated to her work. I hope she get paid well, certainly would be worth every penny and more. I am not a paid reviewer, just someone who likes to share my experiences so others can see value in their next interaction.

John is a seasoned and knowledgeable mediator. We use John as a mediator on a regular basis. Our clients are always impressed with his demeanor and practical approach to problem solving. He is a very effective mediator and litigator.

Attorney John Durkin helped me through my divorce. He is highly knowledgeable and straight forward. He responded promptly to my questions and concerns and I was able to settle through mediation and avoid a court trial. I would definitely recommend Attorney Durkin.

As I was going through my divorce case John and Kathy were amazing. John was very professional and quick to respond to any of my needs going through the entire process. He took into consideration what would be best for my children and I always listened to what I had to say before giving me his advice. Kathy was great at getting everything to me in a timely manner and always polite thank you for everything Christine

John is a highly respected Attorney and Mediator in New Hampshire. He has decades of experience, and it shows in how he effectively handles his cases, cares for his client's needs, and is able to appropriately resolve issues in a cooperative fashion. There are so many area Attorneys whose first choice for a Mediator is always John Durkin, this includes myself. As a Family Law litigator, John is always willing to fight for his clients interests, but he does it in such a professional manner that the Judges actually listen to what he has to say. I highly recommend John, as both an Attorney, and as a Mediator.

Attorney Durkin, in his role as mediator, has been instrumental in the settlement of many difficult and highly contested cases. His approach is direct which allows parties to understand what they stand to lose or gain by entering into a stipulated agreement. Even if a case does not settle at mediation, more often than not, it will settle at a later date due in part to the guidance that John provided during mediation.

John and the Team are amazing. Strongly recommended.

John helped me get through the hardest few years of my life. I felt supported and well guided through a difficult process. Both he and Kathy were on top of things always. I truly appreciate them both!

John Durkin is an excellent attorney. He is reliable and knowledgeable. He helped me with a very difficult parenting problem spanning several years. He told me the real things I needed to hear instead of just looking for money. He helped me get my child back and I am forever grateful. I consider him a friend.

John is a well respected family law attorney. He is patient, smart and dedicated. I highly recommend him to anyone facing a divorce.

Incredibly supportive and professional. I highly recommend John and his team.

Attorney John Durkin has helped resolve two legal matters for me. Not only was he able to resolve both matters achieving a favorable outcome, he was able to do so with the utmost discretion. I have recommended him to others on a number of occasions and will continue to do so.

I recommend John to both my clients and to friends who need a mediator. He is effective in settling cases, while also making the parties feel heard during the mediation process. John's knowledge of the law, people, and the court system make him an excellent mediator.

I had a wonderful experience working with Attorney Durkin. He gave me great confidence in his representation and I always felt supported and in good hands. I would highly recommend Attorney Durkin! Smart, understanding, kind and very effective.